John Blaze – Secrets Of An Advanced Master Seducer

What you’ll learn in Secrets Of An Advanced Master Seducer:

Underhanded sneaky tactics are because of competition women love competition & that’s why they dress sexy husbore, hasbore, hasbeen = boring man women keep her body lookin good to attract a man women seek validation = how many guys look at her, approach her, compliment, her, phone her, marry, sleep with, ask her on dates women live for validation and that’s why playing hard to get is effective don’t give validation as far as bedroom – don’t express interest too hard & too heavy Calm & aloof through entire interaction and remain disinterested talk about other women, and ask her opinion must not get sexual validation before the act itself (withhold validation to have leverage to close deal)

Don’t validate women remain cool & aloof When a woman asks – Are you gonna have sex with me?No, do you think you could hook me up with your friend?

What is your friend doing tonight?

Don’t give her validation before sex – with hold to have leverage to close the deal Possess value to seduce or influence and always convey higher value than her and more value than other choices she has available to her value – precieved value of you is higher and higher than other men status = how you stand in relation to your rivals most dominate = highest status in a group Show dominance through body language like a simple handshake, be first to introduce and put hand out to shake it with their palm facing down. Stand toe to toe with rival to force him to unconsciously react by taking a step back, talk louder and over him and cut him off mid sentence.

Disrespect him by turning back on him while he’s talking, exclude him from the group, mispronounce by mistake and call him a different name.(joe black vs joe brown vs joey) Offer him unsolicited advice and assumes superiority or dominance.(hey joe, you should tuck ur shirt in, it’s not appropriate here) Suggest lower status in him. (hey joey practice it a few times, you could do it just like me, you’ll be good just like me),

Insult him with humor (hey joey that shirt sucks man, haha just playing where you get it), Offer him a piece of gum which suggests he has bad breath and show dominance and superiority, discredit anything he says (common everybody knows that, no kidding wow) Correct him (Hey joey that was an 18-12 man not an 18-30 you get it, hey man stand straight up, hey man it’s custom to look somebody in the eye when you cheer someone and then drink) Discredit him in the eyes of other people will show dominance.

Tune him out or ignore him (yawn in his face, don’t chim in, don’t ask him questions, look the other way, don’t act impressed by what he says) Put arm around him to show status, Signal to girls by rolling ur eyes while talking to discredit him & what he’s saying, antithesis of having high status is to over dominate by already using the tools if you already have high status.

Social intelligence – communicate effectively to get needs meet, do you make decisions quickly, easily and congruently, can you mingle in a group & hold your own conversationally, Large social group, friends, proses a sharp wit (learn humor & comedy writing), go for and get what you want, make good buying decisions, negotiate effectively EX of NOT not getting the name of the person ur with being shy or introvert

not giving a waitress clear and explicit instructions being a dumbass around other people making inappropriate comments or jokes

EX of good Tip bartender big first time, 10-20 bucks stand way back and hold up money in right hand behind a large crowd at a bar (yell or show signal 1) Entertainment – can you entertain and compel an audience, storytelling & comedy, interesting, speaking with multi tones & multi topics (wide range of topics & express this to people in a way that captivates and moves people) Self amusing = more valuable Resources – money, access to resources, food, clothing, shelter, travel and communicate it to others. (selective disclosure & communicate disclosure)

Value is relative to a woman’s perception of her own value, just enough value to be higher than hers but too much to make her feel unqualified or insecure.

Paris Hilton vs college chick Modeus Operandi – only sleep with super models means can’t get college chicks it’s all about value

De-valuation – sometimes necessary to show high value by devaluing others if they have high value

Touch every single ding, scratch & dent & make faces of disapproval, “you smoked in this car?”, look at speedometer “You do a lot of driving huh?”, point out everything even bird crap & dust on the car, & write everything and point out everything in vehicle because when we get to the bargaining table, I’ve lowered his value & expectation of what he can get. Call the owner and low ball him & have friends & family call him all separately at different times of the day at offer him a lot less than he expected so that when I show up, even my low offer seems fair when compared to his other offers. To devalue vechicle.

Have beliefs of high value then devalue her to show high value in me. Like negging: Is your hair real? (imply fake hair) (if she thinks she’s smart devalue her intelligence by telling her about women that are smarter than her) (if she thinks she’s hot then devalue her be telling her she’s sweet, adorable, nice, normal looking)

Purpose is to display high value Reluctant buyer – hard to get – disinterested Selling a car “you know this is my favorite car, I was gonna take it off the market today because I really thought about how valuable and how special it’s been to me but since you’re already here. Since I got you on the phone, what’s the best offer you’re prepared to make.”

Not interested in selling it therefor a low ball offer is thrown out the window and more likely to offer a higher price because they know you’re not going to get rid of it.

Reluctant buyer offers resistance to advances because he knows he’s in a better position, and he knows better to jump on the first offer.EX Get a girls number at a club – HIM:“You know I got your number but I don’t think I should call you” HER:why HIM:cause you won’t remember me, you had too much too drink & I don’t want that. HER:blah blah (explanation of why & how so she commits herself to what you want her to believe)

In a group a reluctant buyer doesn’t believe everything he hears, he’s skeptical & judgmental of others & doesn’t show much interest in anyone but himself & his own wants & desires & needs. Not easily persuaded and put people in a position to work harder to get my commitment & attention. Doesn’t hang on to every word of other people, not impressed by others, by their feats, accomplishments or stories. Sees more value in himself than anything that’s presented in the moment, don’t woo or wow in any story. I am the prize, doesn’t buy story easily and shows a sense of suspicion.

“how old are you?” “where do you live?” (suspicious tone) Air of reluctance so real intentions are hidden, reluctant to be with her “I’m busy monday, wednesday & friday, we can hang out a few minutes are tuesday.” (not eager) People believe I’m not easy and not quick to jump on first offer, people want to work to win me over. People want to work to win me over.

A woman asks for my number “I usually don’t give out my number, why don’t we exchange numbers instead.” She wants to hang out at her house “You know I don’t really like to go to women’s houses but I’ll stay for like 20 minutes but then I gotta go okay” People think I’m hard to get People want to work for the things I ask of them People feel they have to earn my trust

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