Drew Gerald – Dirty Talk

Drew Gerald’s exploration of dirty talk provides valuable insights into how this practice not only enhances sexual encounters but also nurtures emotional bonds, encouraging individuals to articulate their desires and fantasies in ways that may have previously felt uncomfortable.

What You’ll Learn In Dirty Talk

Episode 1: Drew’s Guest Appearance on KUCI 88.9FM Part 1

Drew was welcomed on as a guest on KUCI 88.9FM’s “The Chat Room” with Marrie Stone in Irvine, California on Friday August 24th 2012 to discuss his business, story, and answer questions about dating and sex. Drew’s story of childhood struggle of being a loser, tiny spark, classic pitfalls of men, work on shortcomings rather than a perfect facade, the best investment you can make, context of strength, women are people too, the importance of confidence, the abundance mindset test, where women’s sexuality is based.

Episode 2: Drew’s Guest Appearance on KUCI 88.9FM Part 2

Part 2 of Drew’s guest appearance and interview on KUCI 88.9FM’s “The Chat Room” in Irvine, California finishing their discussion on his business, story, and questions about dating and sex. All women get into the sexting, 50 Shades of Grey, how to get her to anything, make her come 10 times during sex, webcam or phone sex, awkwardness, the best way to get started with it and introduce it first, talking dirty and sexy, Nancy Friday – My Secret Garden, learn how to do it.

Episode 3: Salvaged Conversation With Nicole Part 1

In this conversation, recovered from some technical difficulties, Nicole and Drew discuss how women shut off their femininity and sexuality, as well as what that means for men’s responses to them. Help to sexually liberate women, the pain of women showing up in the world, surrender vs submission, women protecting themselves of from to being open and feminine, being afraid, masculine searching for feminine light, talk to anybody, going for what you want and treating everyone equally, you can judge a man by the way he treats someone that can do nothing for him.

Episode 4: Salvaged Conversation With Nicole Part 2

In the second part, Nicole and Drew discuss how women shut off their femininity and sexuality, as well as what that means for men’s responses to them. Shining light vs being attracted, attraction isn’t a choice, conscious way to connect, the men women want, what goes wrong in relationships, sexual polarities, man leading and trusting his masculinity.

Episode 5: Conscious Sex with Co-Host Jenny Ferry Part 1

This episode of Dirty Talk, I’m delighted to have Jenny Ferry on as my guest. She’s the author of the forthcoming book Soul Sex: Creating the Conscious Connection You Crave and a Soul Sex Coach. In part 1, we talk about Jenny’s story of her sexual safe haven, Steve Job’s connecting the dots, the simple ways to help people through their sexual disconnect, the illusion of sex in our society, self-pleasuring practices and co-creating, masculine and feminine balances, common quirky aspects of sexuality, college sexuality surveying, relationship configurations, communicating about advanced desires.

Episode 6: Conscious Sex with Co-Host Jenny Ferry Part 2

In part 2 of this episode of Dirty Talk with Jenny Ferry, we talk about sex-shutdown in a classic marriage, how easy it is embracing new sex lives, how women can get in touch with their orgasms, vaginal intimidation, how to come from curiosity and desire to learn, how simple it can be, should you be explicit or passive, be naked in nature sex, Dr Seuss, conscious hooking up, abundance or the fear and scarcity of monogamous committed relationships, talk of Soul Sex book.

Episode 7: Interview With Hot Rawks (Organic Libido Enhancer) Creator Julie Wilson

In this episode of Dirty Talk, I’m delighted to have my friend Julie Wilson on the show to talk about her story of overcoming Crohn’s disease the all natural way, and how she came up with her organic, raw, all-natural libido enhancer – Hot Rawks.

Not only that, you get a personal sneak peak inside the mind and sexuality of this high-class rawkstar. Julie shares with us how she decided to take her health into her own hands after being told her intestines would need to be removed, how her journey at 25 lead her to share what she’s learned to improve people’s sex life and health, the insider scoop on her marketing approaches as a “lipstick hippie” on Playboy radio “fucking, sucking, and this and that”, holistic sex health, healthy creates horny, dealing with sexual guilt, curvaceous results, emotional connections with 50 Shades of Grey, whips & bondage, how Julie over came her hesitations about a kinky sexual fantasy, and what makes semen taste delicious or repulsive.

Episode 8: Conversation With Nicole Abundance

Nicole and I try this for a second time, enjoying a technical issue-free show that came out great. In this episode of Dirty Talk with Drew Gerald, Nicole talks about her marriage and how it ended, her reflection on the skills and ideas she has now compared to then, how getting back into the dating world was absolute hell, subconscious mind’s limiting beliefs, the “dating cycle and stages”, women in their masculine, women’s capacity to be feminine with boundaries, the 2 major things at play with her man’s commitment, 2 major techniques for women to get back into their feminine, the words we use to describe having sex tell everything unconsciously, how to build each other up through pleasure, and if women should give sex for commitment.

Episode 9: Health, Presence, and Sex with Philip McCluskey

This week’s guest is Philip McCluskey, a health expert who has lost over 215lbs by going on a raw food diet. I brought him on the show to talk about how his weight and transformation affected his sex drive and sex life, and he delivered more inspiration in an hour than I’d ever expect.

Philip is a shining example how taking charge of your health can not only have profound impacts on your sex, but how that all adds up to creating an amazing life in and out of the bedroom.

Philip discusses his breaking point and magic number on the scale that caused him to make a drastic change in his life, the choices behind our actions, if he would do it all over again, the critical point you need to be where the doors of opportunity open, the challenges of being overweight in the bedroom, transitioning from vanity, the attractiveness of healthy women, the feedback from honestly asking to make love on the first night, polyamory, the excuses and stores of our victimhood, the sexiness of a man’s purpose, the power of being present, poor sex education for men from porn, adapting to new women’s preferences and communicating, the language of poor sex, going deep with one partner, sex with the house on fire, and lighting up other people’s lights from your own story.

Episode 10: Interview With The Erotic Rockstar Destin Gerek

This episode of Dirty Talk with Drew Gerald features the Erotic Rockstar, Destin Gerek. Destin is a California State Certified Somatic Sexologist through the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, an Erotic Empowerment Coach, and an Erotic Performer and Artist for over a decade. As a close friend, I invited him on the show to talk about his story and share his solutions for the major problem men and women have around their sex lives.

In this show, Destin introduces himself and his path of becoming an erotic rockstar, integrating mind, body, and spirit, his dark period and early influences, creating a more sex-positive culture, how he works with his clients, how one of his clients became a “babe magnet” that evoked women’s sexual desire, the major hangups of both men and women around sex, the disconnect from our bodies, a powerful technique to become present, the magic of being curious, sex in the shower, the pressures of women needing to be perfect, Drew’s “no cellphone” rule, the most powerful way to improve your sex life.

Episode 11: Interview With Secrets of Longevity’s Govan Kilgour

In this episode of Dirty Talk with Drew Gerald, I interview Govan Kilgour of “Secrets of Longevity” about the role of sex in living a longer, sexier, and healthier life for both men and women. Govan and I discuss semen retention, herbs, and all sorts of crazy awesome longevity and health aspects of sex.

Episode 12: 1st Guest Appearance on Goddess Imperative

This episode of Dirty Talk is actually an interview of me, Drew Gerald, on the Australian radio show The Goddess Imperative. Amanda and Juli were kind enough to have me on their show to talk sex and want to share their episode with you. While their show is more geared towards women, there’s plenty of interesting thoughts being discussed for both sexes this episode.

Episode 13: 2nd Guest Appearance on Goddess Imperative

This episode of Dirty Talk is the second guest appearance of me, Drew Gerald, on the Australian radio show The Goddess Imperative. Amanda and Juli inited me on to continue last week’s discussion and really get into the juicy sex topics – and we dive right in. While their show is more geared towards women, there’s plenty of interesting thoughts being discussed for both sexes this episode.

Episode 14: Porn, Measure B, The Adult Industry with Dr. Chauntelle Tibbals, PhD

Dr. Chauntelle Tibbals, PhD joins me on this episode of Dirty Talk where we discuss the adult industry, porn, the implications of Measure B passing in LA, and all sorts of perspectives of a professional porn reviewer and industry insider. She is a sociologist specializing in gender, sexualities, work and organizations, and media and popular culture.

Her research has been published in numerous scholarly journals including Sexualities, Gender Work & Organization, St. Mary’s Law Review on Race and Social Justice, Journal of Contemporary Ethnography, and Stanford Law and Policy Review. She has been quoted by numerous mainstream media outlets including CNN, Jezebel, and the HuffingtonPost.

Episode 15: Eros, Dark Sex Mythology, and Kink with Galen

In this value-packed episode of Dirty Talk, I have conscious kinkster Galen (Daka Dom) on the show talking about all sorts of dirty things. We discuss eros, sexual mythology, sexual awakenings, explosion of truth before orgasm, descent into the soul, the outer and inner chambers, the shadow side of sexuality, masculinity, vulnerability and authenticity, trust and breaking-open of the heart, and so much more! This is a MUST-LISTEN show, full of some really powerful conversation between Galen and I.

Episode 16: Mia Interviews Drew About Sex, Vulnerability, & Oneness

In this episode, Mia of the Passion Muse interviews me over Skype about some of my personal blog articles such as The Masculine-Vlunerablity Paradox and Duality In Oneness – A Powerful Conscious Paradox – as well as the sex work that I’m doing.

Episode 17: Indulging In Sexual Arousal

Back from hiatus and with a new show format! Shorter episodes discussing various topics of sexuality with new co-hosts, occasional standard guest interviews will still be happening as they arise. This episode features cohost Nicole as we talk about indulging in arousal. Getting to a place where you enjoy feeling your lovers erotic hotness, wetness, or hardness and are okay to express your own without shame.

Episode 18: Interview With Shana James of Authentic Woman Experience

This episode of Dirty Talk, I interview and chat with Shana James of the Authentic Man Program & the Authentic Woman Experience and discuss all sorts of fun stuff. From fantasies and how they can be used for sexual expansion all the way to sex in space. Topics include the right way to be vulnerable, dealing with your crap so you can be fully present, and the power of taking your lover to her edge and just beyond it. I hope you guys enjoyed listening as much as we enjoyed talking about it, and look forward to more chats with Shana!

Episode 19: Shana Interviews Drew On How To Talk Dirty And Divine

This episode of Dirty Talk, Shana interviews me for the goods on dirty talk. In this show I share not only practical tips you can use now, but the bigger picture of things you might not see when it comes to talking erotic. I share my best tips on dirty talk and you’ll even hear Shana start to share some of her dirty talk near the very end. A very steamy episode you won’t want to miss!

Episode 20: Artificial Constraints, Sex Limitations, And Bondage

This episode of Dirty Talk, Shana and I talk about artificial constraints and how they can be used to spice up your sex life. We dive into placing limitations on sex on purpose and how that can benefit your sex life (counter-intuitively). And finally, we talk about actual bondage – how physical limitations can be super sexy. Be sure to listen to this podcast now, as the insights we both share are going to add a new spin on your bedroom (or as we share, any place BUT the bedroom) fun.

Episode 21: Ronnie Landis Health And Peak Sexual Performance Part 1

This week we have Ronnie Landis on the show, for part one of a two-part series on peak sexual performance. We’ll be talking about hormones, sex, super herbs, libido supplements, and a whole lot of amazing stuff you’ve likely never heard anywhere else.

Ronnie Landis is one of the leading authorities of the new generation on raw living foods and super foods, tonic herbalism, blender alchemy, peak performance strategies, and functional nutrition. He is an author, professional speaker, and life style design specialist who conducts live presentations, workshops, raw chocolate parties, private consultations, and retreats regularly. He is the author of the upcoming 2014 released books The Hidden Messages in Chocolate and Eating for Sex.

Episode 22: Ronnie Landis Health And Peak Sexual Performance Part 2

Ronnie Landis is back this week for part 2! In this episode, Ronnie answers the follow questions in-depth:

1. What specific routines, exercises or supplements, help put somebody into peak sexual performance? What practices do you put into place?
2. What nutrients play a part in semen/vaginal lubrication, how to supplement to replenish?
3. What is your take on peak performance on an energetic level?
4. How do hormones play a part in improving arousal and libido, specifically, ways to increase free testosterone naturally?
5. Can you talk about the “3 treasures” in respect to sexual longevity and performance?
6. What are the common mistakes people make when it comes to sexual virility and nutrition?

Episode 23: Drew Interviewed For Women On When To Have Sex, Body Insecurity, Sex Filters, Shame

In this special interview, Sandra Fidelis of Ivy League Love Academy interviews Drew Gerald for her private woman’s group. This is directed towards a conscious and openminded group of women, however I was able to convince her to let me share this interview on this show for free.

We were having a bit of technical difficulty with my audio, so please understand my voice may sound a bit distant. That being said, the content was too valuable to throw away. In this episode, you’ll learn: About Drew’s story and how he got started When you should have sex with a man for the first time What’s at the core of body image insecurity and what to do about it What men want instead Drew’s 7 Filters of Sexuality Overcoming shame around sex More insights for women Enjoy!

Episode 24: Interview With Vanessa Simpkins On Women’s Empowerment, Sexual Emotions, Addictive Relationships

In this episode, I’ll be interviewing Vanessa Simpkins – an entrepreneur, holistic coach, and author. She’ll be sharing her story of personal empowerment and how this relates for women (men too!) to become empowered in their relationship. It may seem a little off topic, but stick with it and you’ll see the connection to an empowered sex life as we explore levels of emotions, addictive relationships and what to do about them.